Do you think it is rude for your partner to constantly checkout others in front of you?

by checking out do you mean looking or something else?

@ehBeth, by checking out I mean like eyeing up an attractive stranger up and down in front of you.

I'm ok with my partner looking.

I consider it evidence he's alive. The same way flirting is.

Of course it is rude . Respect for you would demand some sort of decorum . Arent they worried about hurting your feelings ?

Is it oogling - or just looking?

Is is everyone, or just people of the opposite sex?

Is this a long time habit of this person, or something new?

I do not think that the action Indicates unfaithfulness.

however. Yes, I agree... or at least I think, that it is Rude.

If you can trust your partner and your relationship is good, then it can be acceptable. But it is unnecessary and is unappreciable.
Your partner has no need to show you disrespect by checking out others as if they deserve extra company when they are to neglectful, lazy and rude to contribute tot he one they are in. - which is the impression I get from people who check out other people.

In regards. I like to look at pretty women.
I like to look. not think about them**.
I appreciate beauty.
however, comments are unnecessary unless they are calm passive remarks directed at the person with you to demonstrate a simple acknowledgement of the subject matter, in a NON SUGGESTIVE way.

that is my take on it.
lazy disrespectful people get bored and still think they deserve more.
if you can trust her, there isn't a problem with it** just remember you need to take better care of your body. and be cool about it.

"@ehBeth, by checking out I mean like eyeing up an attractive stranger up and down in front of you. "~ ehBeth

ah ha. that's called looking like an idiot. he should just stop. it's not about you anymore. It is just stupid. Like watching someone pick their nose.

You should just say that next time when he is doing it, "what are you doing? Picking your nose?" he will get mad and the girl will hear. XD

Depends on what 'checking out' means to you. An admiring glance is one thing. Saying "My God that guy's a Greek god!" is quite another.

As with porn, if it puts people into a sex-hungry mood with you it's fine. If it has the opposite effect it's a problem.

It ultimately depends on the personalities of the two people. If you know that your partner doesn't like it, and you still blatantly do it in front of them, then it's rude. Personally, I do it all the time and love when my g/f does it as well.

what happens when YOU do it? Is it okay for you to ogle, stare, make comments? If it is, then maybe its nothing. Why are you feeling threatened is the question.