@asiangal555,
Guys like talkative girls when they have troubles breaking the ice.
I am sure that a guy has no problems with your quietness, especially when he gets to know you. but that means he has to try to introduce himself and start all the topics,
meaning he will quickly run out of material and jokes for future dates. he will waste all his anecdotes which were good for life lessons and moments of sympathy.
I love quiet girls, but when I do not know how they feel I am insecure. This makes him feel like the date went bad.
If you like a boy after a quiet date. YOU need to ask him out for the second date at the end of the date.
however. this means the next date he will want to talk your ear off. Over excited that you were interested, but still insecure about being himself.
telling him to be himself will not help very much.
I hope this was informative and helps.