I certainly didn't marry someone like my mother.
But its my parents that drive my wife nuts,,,my stepmother in particular and some of her cranky old miserable friends.
my wife's friends can't believe how my stepmom still talks down to me even as im 30 now...kids of my own, place of my own, the only one of the kids who "did it" on their own.
Scarlett...my wife knows what you speak of. my stepmom accused of her wanting me strictly for a green card and babies because my wife is 6 years older than me.
My wife passed up a job making 4 times what i did in the military to marry me, and stay in the states for good.
She was a nanny to a swiss family than came to the states for a 1 year short term contract. six weeks later she met me.
six weeks after that we got married.
they never knew about that first wedding. They think we got married that october.
My stepmother is a miserable person,,,so i can relate how you feel because i discuss it a lot with my wife.
so i only keep in touch with my dad, he loves us. that's about all that i care about now.