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Genuine friendliness

 
 
Reply Fri 15 May, 2015 09:47 pm
Can an older married man that I spend time with be genuinely friendly? Spending time only includes working out together. He's as crazy as me when it comes to fitness. He swims, runs, and bikes. I run 10miles a day on average and was a pro swimmer. When we are together we only talk about exercises, races, and goals. We text each other everyday, usually about fitness, but also our hobbies. I've been getting mixed vibes. He has been saying how I'm in good shape and that I'm pretty often. I don't want to be over my head. What do you all think? This is a continuation from my other question: does my married boss like me.
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Ragman
 
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Reply Fri 15 May, 2015 10:52 pm
@Starfish07,
Wait...aren't you married...or am I offbase here?

Anyhow, he's married...so why do want to risk your job? Why would he want to risk his and yours?
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EllaGrace
 
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Reply Tue 19 May, 2015 08:34 am
@Starfish07,
Does he always asks you to work out together? How often do you meet? Did he also ask you out for dinner/drink/etc?
I think if he had interest he would ask you out for a date..
FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Tue 19 May, 2015 03:54 pm
@Starfish07,
He's 22 years older than you and married.

A lot of people have fantasies but don't act on them.

He could also view you "like" a daughter .

He "only" talks to you about fitness, he's a fitness freak, he does not discuss anything else with you.

Lastly, "he" is "married" so forget what ever you are thinking, it's only you that is thinking it.
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Starfish07
 
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Reply Tue 19 May, 2015 04:52 pm
@EllaGrace,
Yeah, he always asks me to work out with him at least 4 times a week, but like my last post I've actually went out on a workout 4 times in the past two months. He makes plans for lunch and dinner. I haven't been out yet though because I've made excuses. He also planned a trip to go to an event with me recently.
Ragman
 
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Reply Tue 19 May, 2015 05:45 pm
@Starfish07,
I'll re-ask you this :

Anyhow, he's married...so why do want to risk your job? Why would he want to risk his and yours?
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