@unitato,
Unitato.
We are "in love" with what we can't have. He only wants to have sex with you, whether you both had sex before or whether that didn't happen? He recalls "you" and is wanting that intimacy but not for a relationship, purely sex.
Can you be in love with someone that only wants to use you for one night?
Check your love meter
You want someone that wants you.
An ex is an ex for a reason.