@Starfish07,
He's interested.
You're not helping by being so damned compliant with everything.
There are plenty of places where you could have halted this or at least slowed it down.
E. g. why agree to run marathons with him? A polite,
thanks, but I don't have the time to commit to training would have been fine. In fact, you can even say that now.
Sorry, but I wasn't able to put in the intense training needed for a marathon. Have fun without me!
Next time he offers a ride, don't go. Ask your husband to drive you, get a friend, take the bus, call a cab! Just because you work for the guy does not mean that you need to say yes to every single thing that he proposes.
Speaking of all of this, he has been overstepping his bounds with the texting, etc. This has gone on long enough. Unfortunately, you are in a subordinate position. But you're going to have to be the one to stop it. You are going to have to be a lot less available, for everything from running to being next to the snack area and accepting his snack gifts (
Sorry, I'm going gluten-free).
You might want to look for another job. Seriously. This sort of stuff rarely ends well.
PS I am operating under the assumption that the attentions are unwelcome and you don't want to sleep with the guy. If you do, still look for another job. Because when it ends (and it always does), you'll find yourself on the unemployment line anyway.