is this a sure love sign

could be. Maybe she likes you and she is too shy to say hello.

The advice you get in this new topic isn't going to be any different from that in the other two topics you started about this girl.

There are few sure things in life. Don't avoid talking to her because it's not a certainty that she likes you. Take a goddamned risk once in a while.

Man up and talk to her, instead of going over every little action of hers as if it were recorded in the Zapruder film.

So what did you SAY when she was sitting on your bench?

Why are you so afraid to speak up and say hello or SOMETHING to this girl?

Maybe she likes you and actually hopes you will talk to her. Maybe she just likes your bench. Maybe she got confused and sat there by mistake. Maybe she just wants to tease you into thinking she likes you. Maybe she has a bet with a girlfriend about how long you will go without asking her why she is sitting at your bench. Maybe your bench is in just the right spot to get a cooling breeze when it is hot and a warm breeze when it is cold.

The point is, unless you actually talk to her you will never know. So stop posting on A2K and go talk to her already. Geez, how hard can that be?

I didn't say anything to her I just came to my bench and than she went and sat on her bench

whenever I initiate a conversation with her she seems to be uninterested but whenever I talk to someone on any topic she listens to it very carefully

Next time you find her sitting on your bench, just go sit on her bench and see what happens. Or if you really want to jump start this relationship with her, then the next time you find her sitting on your bench, walk right up to her and as soon as she stands to move to her bench, throw your arms around her and give her a huge kiss smack dab on the lips. This will, without doubt, either jumpstart your relationship or get you thrown into jail. Either way, you will finally put an end to your anxiety over whether she likes you or not. And you'll do so without even talking to her, which is obviously a plus given the fact you two have an aversion to talking to each other.