That IS a good question, Shari! ... I know who I am, and I know myself well, but do I know myself fully??? I suppose, for me that is part of the stuff of life!
What sort(s) of things do you like to explore?
I dont know...thats the problem I guess. I dont know myself well enough to know what I would like to explore outwardly.
What do you like to explore?
That's a big secret.
Have you been in analysis?
No! I never found the need for it.
Have you?
Absolutely!! There isnt any reason why thats a negative thing.
What is your take on that?
It's a very positive and adventurous thing to do.One can do it oneself with great books.They force you to face things a bit.
Have you tried that method?
I agree! Therapy to those who need help and
receive help. Often times however, therapy bypasses
to take responibility for one's own actions, and I object
to this method. A good therapist can be essential to
one's well being, but for every good one there are
ten quaks out there.
Agreed?
I have and I found it to be helpful especially with relationships.
Have you read relationship books?
Only if the term "therapist" is used technically.Of those I would go hardly one in a thousand.
Do you prefer team games to individual ones?
No! I guess I am too rational. Either it works out or
it doesn't. Communication between the 2 partners is
important, but I feel a relationship book is too generalized
and won't help.
Have you learned from these books?
Individual games. I'm not much of a team player.
What kind of games had you in mind?
I can't imagine a great book that isn't a relationship guide.
Are you getting bogged down with labels?
I have actually...patience, funny enough. Check out Becky Freeman "Chocolate Chili pepper Love"
Super book for women. I recommend it to everyone.
Will you look for it?
Cal wrote-
Quote:What kind of games had you in mind?
Oh-football,cricket and stuff where the self becomes sublimated.
What sports do you play?
I don't think so shari, but if it helps you, then it serves its
purpose.
Has it?
shari wrote-
Quote:Will you look for it?
No.It sounds a bit gimmicky and also too hot.
Was it?
Sports? No football and no cricket or any others for that
matter. I exercise, that's it.
Do you play any sports?
Holy pippville batman......I try not to be very competitive.
Do you like competition?
Not at all! I try to disqualify them, if possible
Is competition good?
Yes.I find it stimulating.
Women are very competitive don't you think?
