The problems with my inlaws aren't really the same, but still problems!
It started out with one of our first meetings... After that my wife told her mother that she should remember my name, there could be something big happeneig here. To that my (at that time) future mom-in-law asked what I was doing for a living, and my wife said that I'm a waiter in an italian restaurant. "Oh, and what's his real job?" I was working 60 hrs a week at that time... And how was I supposed to support her? My wife made/makes a good deal better money than I do. Oh, almost forgot, I'm also a good foreigner, since I'm swedish, in her opinion!
Well, then we got married and it was good for a while, for us. My wife's parents had their own textile firm, and working with them was my wife's sister and her husband. Textile used to be a very good business here in the region, but it turned sour like 15 yrs ago, as did my in-laws's business. For this my father-in-law blamed his daughter and her husband! The firm went bankrupt 4yrs ago, which was more like beating a dead horse the 5 yrs before. The bank took my wife's parent's house and they were free of debt, which was ok. But they left my sister-in-law with a huge debt, for something that could've been avoided, had they jumped ship ten yrs earlier!
Nowadays the parents-in-law are sitting in Hungary and bitch about that nobody wants to visit them, and that it's everyoneelse's fault that the firm went down the drain.
And when they come to visit, they say funny things like " How is Urs (my wife) going to finance her hobby, and for how long?" There's nothing spelled wrong here, I'm her hubby, that's right, but in their eyes I'm a freakin' HOBBY!!! My sister-in-law is really sorry that this came to my ears, but I'm not. Know I know what I am to them, and I also know that Hungary is not on my vacation plans again, ever. They can bitch about noone visiting 'till hell freezes over, for all I care.
My sister-in-law is all screwed up because of her parents, and will probably seek professional help to cope, my wife has me, she says, and their brother fled to the States twenty years ago!
A lot of people cooks for a hobby
my wife has a hobby that can cook!!