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Bathhouses? Just Sex or Can I make Friends?

 
 
Reply Mon 13 Apr, 2015 04:38 pm
I'm gay and thought maybe it would be a good experience for me to be comfortable with my sexuality by going to a bathhouse. Is it just all about sex? Or could I maybe meet other gay guys, have a chat, and maybe get physically intimate... but NO sex?
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jcboy
 
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Reply Mon 13 Apr, 2015 06:46 pm
@THEMAN55,
I’ve never been to one but I highly doubt anyone is there for the conversation. Cool
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Mon 13 Apr, 2015 07:28 pm
@THEMAN55,
You might be better off going to Woody's to dance and talk.

Too bad Zeldas's isn't there anymore. It was a great place to meet people and chat on a Saturday night and their Sunday brunches were amazing.
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GayguyNZ
 
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Reply Tue 5 Jan, 2016 09:00 pm
@THEMAN55,
Hi

To answer your question in one sentence - Yes it is possible to make friends in a sauna but its not people's first reason for going. It does not happen every day but it may happen sometimes.

It's hard to make friends in a gay place. The trouble is that guys that you speak to do not think that you are trying to just make friends. But forget your inhibitions and try. Gay venues are going out of fashion. Grindr and other gay apps on smartphones are making them less necessary. But that does not answer your question. You can say on Grindr - just trying to make a few friends - would like mates to go out to have a drink with etc so that might work too.

Just because you meet another gay guy does not mean that you are trying to bed him.

Cheers
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Onetallgentleman
 
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Reply Thu 31 Mar, 2016 02:35 am
@THEMAN55,
Freddie Mercury visited Bathhouses before getting HIV / Aids .
I would suggest visiting a Gay Friendly Dance Club, you are sure to meet a lot of people that are interested in what you are talking about. The one I used to go to a lot in Texas was frequented by many Women ,hence me a straight guy going. (Make sure to use protection on any partner until you are in a committed relationship and you have both had Std testing completed and you and your partner physically, show each other your results)

Enjoy
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