Sun 12 Apr, 2015 01:17 pm
I am a 28 year old from India. Given my conservative upbringing, I have always considered myself the usual hetrosexual male with the occasional interest in porn and have always been attracted to the female sex since puberty. I have never been against people of other sexual orientation but am personally not sure of my belief in homosexuality. I would like to also add here that I am still a virgin and have not been in any relationship as is the case with most indian men belonging to a conservative upbringing. A few years ago I started to take a liking to the world of BDSM especially where I considered myself a submissive. I would usually masturbate to the fantasy of being pegged by a dominatrix, however a few days ago in one of these fantasies the woman was replaced by a man and since then I get an erection to the same thoughts, I tested my self by checking gay porn and did indeed get an erection. I am a bit at a loss to explain this and btw I still have a liking to women and straight porn. Could use a little help here !!
Maybe you're a bisexual. Or it could just be a phase you're going through? I hope you don't get too stressed about this. All the best.
Thank you for the reply mate !!
Sounds like you are a "late bloomer." Is there a reason why you have not dated before? (school or cultural/religious reasons?)
Don't try to I.D. your sexual preference by spending time on the web. Those porn sites are NOT reality. They are meant to sexually stimulate people. They also give a false picture of how relationships might be.
You need to go out and meet and interact with living people. Then and only then will you be able to figure out who and what you are.