where to go

unless one of you has a second home or a friend willing to loan their home to you, then hotels are the place to go

why not your own home?

yea not an option- car seems to be somewhat safe but always concerned about where to park

car?

that's not an affair

that's ******* a cheap hooker

: )

BJ is always an option. In a car. For free so you aren't a cheap hooker.
You are just lover.
I am honestly having a hard time to imagine car sex.
And home is probably not an option because there is
chance to be caught.

And what is he saying?

Beth,
how come you don't slammed her with 'divorce first?

Well I must say you are very strong hearted women it sounds like cheating to me. Coming on your point I would go on small vacation for 3 to 5 days with my crush.

Not everyone can just tell their spouse 'hon, I am off on vacation by myself'...

And he smiled... I laughed.

Obviously does not want to spend a cent on her, wonder how long that will last.

I think the OP is a guy Eliusa. BUT, so a woman gives a man a BJ in a car and she's not a cheap hooker? She's a lover? I wonder if she has an emotional attachment to him and has agreed to this affair and what she would think about just giving him a BJ in the car, never been sighted in public and only there for sex. That's more a benefit thing, not an affair.

I think though you could be right, he's only after a benefit.