@Rachel Mass,
Rachel Mass wrote: he need some time to refresh
you can offer to help him with whatever is troubling him, causing him to need a refresh but ... you have to understand that the relationship with you may not be on the other side of the refresh
hopefully you consider him a friend and are willing to help - regardless of the relationship outcome
if you do not feel you can be his friend if you are not in a relationship with him, be kind and allow him to break up with you