@Frank Apisa,
The pragmatist view developed post-Nieztche is that is that there is no way of
ultimately distinguishing between "appearance" and "reality" so the distinction is functionally meaningless.
The linguistic philosophers post Wittgenstein agree with that in that
all words, like "appearance" and "reality" take their meaning from their
consensual usage in particular contexts.
I've been into all that countless times. You have vested interests in maintaining your dogma of absolute "is-ness", and that (amongst other things) prevents you from understanding the volumes written in establishing the above position. So you resort to facile arguments about "reliance on authority". Right and wrong don't come into it, only degrees of understanding.
And there, as usual, endeth the lesson.