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Making Things Awkward

 
 
Reply Thu 29 Jan, 2015 02:11 pm
Today at lunch this guy I like was saying something messed up to his friend, my friend also so we're like a group or and i said" Thats messed up" to his insult to someone. He said I "always make things awkward". What should I do? Should I just keep quiet while they make insults or join in and laugh it off?
 
contrex
 
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Reply Thu 29 Jan, 2015 02:41 pm
You could try hanging out with people who aren't stupid dickheads. Or if you feel you have to hang out with such, when they say stupid things, grow a pair and tell them to STFU.
DashDynamic
 
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Reply Thu 29 Jan, 2015 03:02 pm
@contrex,
You're absolutely right. I didn't know if I was being stuck up or not. Thanks for responding
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Butrflynet
 
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Reply Thu 29 Jan, 2015 03:03 pm
@DashDynamic,
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i said" Thats messed up" to his insult to someone. He said I "always make things awkward". What should I do? Should I just keep quiet while they make insults or join in and laugh it off?



Hell no, don't stop speaking up. Be very proud of yourself for doing so. In fact, if it were me, I'd be asking the other members of the group why they too are not speaking up.

Joining in and or laughing it off just makes you a silent contributor. Don't let his attempt at pressuring you to keep quiet stop you from doing what you think is right. He needs more people making things awkward for him when he steps out of bounds.

I'm proud of you. Hold your head tall and keep speaking up.
DashDynamic
 
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Reply Thu 29 Jan, 2015 04:15 pm
@Butrflynet,
Awww thank you. I have a bad habit of over thinking things so I wanted to make sure. I just hate negativity. Once or twice, maybe it is funny. Now after 4 months it is constant action. Thanks sweetheart again
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FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Thu 29 Jan, 2015 04:28 pm
@DashDynamic,
You're not a sheep go you. As others have said be proud that you will not follow everyone else and point out when someone is being disrespectful and stupid.
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