@FBM,
I'll try to repeat (too much trouble to try to find) an illustrative example of what I mean by way of analogy.
Take a case where lightning strikes a cloud.
An observer right next to it will see the lightning and hear the thunder clap virtually simultaneously.
An observer a few miles away will first see the lightning, then later (maybe 15 seconds later), hear the thunder. So the two will not be simultaneous "for him."
So, does physics now say that the thunderclap happened at TWO different times? Hell no.
Three times for 3 observers, 4 times for 4 observers, ad infinitum? Hell, no.
Nor should they.
They just say the two were "in fact" simultaneous, and then explain why they may not have been perceived that way by all observers.
To do otherwise creates an infinite number of standards, which is equivalent to absolutely NO standard, for assessing such things.
No, it didn't happen only if you heard it and only WHEN you heard it, sorry, solipisist.