@dalehileman,
Well, Dale, I just can't figure out why you say this:
Quote: I had thought in my reply that I had expressed the idea that the q is meaningless unless one assumes a stationary ref.
Both the earth and the train could be sharing (equally participating in) any number of various motions. And, of course, we believe they are (rotation, revolution around the sun, moving toward the constellation Leo, etc.). But they are moving differently with respect to the railroad tracks. You don't need any "absolutely stationary" point anywhere to see and know that.
This difference in motion did not exist before the train left the station. What happened? Did the train remain (relatively) motionless while the earth decided to start moving under it? SR itself deems acceleration to be "absolute."
Why is such a question "meaningless?" All of our physics presuppose that we have ways of answering it (e.g. by application of the laws of inertial, or conservation of momentum).
SR itself deems accelerated motion to be "absolute motion," doesn't it?