@mandosa,
Quote:Okay.thank you he is so into my academic he install so many videos and even coursera..today he said he won't reply me till after my exams he even said if I don't get A or B he will break up with me....said have not been studying hard. Sha I know he loves me
He is challenging you for you to get better in school.
If you love him, then you must take the challenge.
At the end, the benefit will be for you, because you will be successful in your studies even if he is no more in your life.
What he is doing, is making you busy enough so you won't be "fooling" around with other guys. You must also understand that distance is very "tricky" and either one of you can hurt your relationship by having an affair.
His way to prevent for you to have free time and think in other guys is by having you studying hard and being successful until both of you meet again.
A guy who don't care about you and about your relationship won't ask what he is asking you. His proposition is understandable. You might tell him the same, for him to study hard for both of you as well.