I am currently going through a difficult challenge with my boyfriend (for an in depth read reference the topic "rock and a hard place". One of the things that keep coming up, is how a real man might deal with such a problem or whether it makes him less of a man not to be able to please his girlfriend. I am truly curious about what (in a man's opinion) makes a man, a real man. Wow that's a mouth full. Hope this clarifies.