@chennye19,
Chennye don't give up! I'm the father of a beautiful child that I'm searching for myself. My child mother told me the same thing. There was a reason for the conversation so he had suspicion, he didn't see her through her pregnancy so that suspicion is mixed with hope. And if he has any love for his hope and suspicion he's searching like me. Mom is the key, get as much info from her and post, search and Google away. Im from new york, and looking for Sheila. If that helps you can reply back. My child should at least 20 now.