@whitebars,
whitebars wrote:
So you were drunk and a little girl touched your butt. And you thought it was a "compliment". So you really enjoy the thought that a young girl would want to touch your butt? That sounds pretty perverted to me. Sounds like you may be a bit on the sicko perv side, and also misogynist.
Yes, i understand that. But I was the victim of that sexual assault. You are blaming the victim now... :-)
I hesitated before posting that story. The only person I had talked to about it so far was my wife. The 'compliment' part was of course a post-facto rationalization. When it happened, I did feel 'violated', mildly so because she's child, but still, it jolted me. That was not right and totally inappropriate, not to mention borderline illegal. I knew that and that's what I told her.
I explained to her that it was illegal between a child and an adult, that people can go to jail for that... On purpose, I kept it vague, giving her the impression that SHE also could go to jail for it, which was a lie of course but I wanted to scare her badly. I didn't want her to get into trouble by doing it again to somebody else.
She gave me a rather sad look for that and I felt my heart sink, but it had to be said.
Most kids are good guys but very sentimental. Boys fall easily in love with grown up women, they find them sexy, and it's not sick in my book. And neither is a girl child falling for a grown up man. When you reach 45, worse things could happen to you than noticing that a smart and beautiful 10 yr old boy has a crush on you... Trust me on this.
Later I wondered if i had done something wrong, but no, other than laugh at her jokes and look at her stary-eyes... I just fell under her spell and she must have felt it somehow. I haven't seen her since.
Quote:And the pictures you posted are ridiculous. That's not what happened in my situation. The girl he kissed cried. And when he touched my breast, it was a hard touch, and my breast shifted partially coming out of my top.
This young man needed to be removed for safety reasons.
Listen, the boy may be a total jackass for all I know. But he is not a man. You MUST be able to understand that. He is a 6 year old BOY. Why do you keep calling him a man? THAT is creepy.
Quote:it's very funny to me that you people have called me a "man's rights activist" who's part of some secret lollipop group. LOL, wow, what's my master plan then? Could you inform me please so that I'm aware of it?
Men's rights LOL. I get exactly what you asinine people are trying to do. By inferring that I'm a rape apologist, and I guess a man too you're trying to harass me into becoming angry or something. Or to cause me mental distress, like I'm going to feel bad about myself and breakdown.
Now that may be the most interesting part of the story. The idea that one could accuse a 6 year old of sexual assault is so gross, so bizarre, that some posters just cannot believe it. Hence the 'lollipop theory'... It's not that people are trying to screw you up. They are genuinely surprised, with a touch of message board paranoia. Anti-feminists have been saying for years that feminists are bat-**** crazy so when we see a bat-**** crazy feminist come in, some tend to think it can only be a false flag operation from anti-feminists.
I believe you though... You're just a bat-**** crazy feminist. They do exist.
Quote:Well, it's men like you and firefly who are the creeps. This place is just another meeting place for you misogynists.
I have always loved women. Do you love men?
), then why would it be illogical to surmise that men have issues unique to them that they need unique support for (thus men's rights)? Why can't both exist? Every time you bring up men's issues, you put down men. You insinuate that men don't have have problems or need support. That's sexist. That is bigotry. 