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PostModernFreak
 
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Reply Sat 12 Jun, 2004 01:51 pm
fairandbalanced wrote:
PostModernFreak wrote
You should read all my posts and arguments in this subject. You can find my posts throughout the forum topic


I read the whole thing, and her arguments about her knowing a few homosexuals, who does this and that, is of course a big generalization, and more likely an attempt at rubbing you the wrong way for pleasure, than actually being factual Very Happy

By heavier stuff, I mean her use of Darwin. Couldn't you apply his theories about survival of the fittest on human beings. I don't know what, and none knows for sure what causes homosexuality. But could it be considered a defect, and wouldn't it turn homosexuals into weaker links, as our natural goal as humans is to reproduce? Anyways, that was some food for thought.
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cavfancier
 
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Reply Sat 12 Jun, 2004 02:40 pm
fairandbalanced, just in case the bunny doesn't hop by again soon, "taking the mickey" just means pulling our collective legs, having a go at us, jibing, making humourous quips at the expense of the gullible, well, you get the idea. Smile
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Wiyaka
 
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Reply Sat 12 Jun, 2004 05:27 pm
PMF,

Please read the links offered in this thread again. There are plenty of us within the GLBT community that have had children. Personally, I know a State Supreme Court Judge that has adopted two young healthy, well balanced boys. He and his male partner are doing a wonderful job with these boys. This is only one case of GLBT people caring for children that are available for adoption. With so called "normal" people giving up their children for adoption, why not GLBT people that will teach love, respect and caring for others?

Regarding "defect" and "weaker links", please choose your words carefully, after doing some research on the subject. I personally, feel that I have made some worthwhile contributions in my lifetime, excluding my surviving the Vietnam War. (Please read my profile for more on that.)

In 1976, at age 28,I ran for sheriff of a county in Wisconsin. It had no civil service and the employees were picked by the heads of the departments. That's how I became a deputy there. I was beaten out in the primary and continued on as an Independent. The two men that ran against me had both been Sheriff's that I had worked for. When the election was over, I found myself celebrating with one of my opponents. (Politics and friendships can be separated by real friends.) However, almost six months from that election, the county board approved county-wide civil service for all non-elected positions. I t was one of the last two counties in our state to do so.

Later, I worked for the State of Wisconsin for four and an half years. During that time, I convinced employers to not only increase wages for seasonal food processing workers, but also pay longevity pay to those that worked for the company for years. It was a "win-win" situation. Workers earned more money and the company didn't have the huge annual turnover in personnel, which occured when other canneries opened up and offered a dime an hour more. I referred 385 people to one plant and after three months, there were still 353 of them on the job.

During that same period, I ran one of the first employment programs in the country to get people off the welfare roles. We called it "Workfare" and it was one of nine pilot programs in the state to attempt this. My area was an economically disadvantaged area of the state and some of the participants were third generation welfare recipients. By the end of the first nine months, I not only met my goals for employment, but exceeded them. The following year was the same. Only five people in my program didn't go to work. Out of over forty people, four chose not to work and the other ended up on social security disability. Not bad percentages, if you ask me. The highest wage was $12.50/hour, the lowest? It was $5.50/hour, when minimum wage was $3.35! Many were still with the same employer five years later!!

These are a few of the things I've done to be proud of. There are others in civilian life, as well as the military. I'm only one person in the GLBT community. There are several million of us worldwide that have made contributions to society. Was Alexander the Great a "weak link"? The list is extremely long and varied in our contributions to humanity, yet you dare call us "defects" and "weak links"?
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PostModernFreak
 
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Reply Sat 12 Jun, 2004 05:55 pm
I am not calling homosexuals weaker links or defects, nor am I questioning that homosexuals have done good things for society. I am raising a question, based on natural science theories, such as Darwin's theory about survival of the fittest - is it not plausible to use his theories as arguments for why homosexuals should not be allowed to have children - because that's what LRRHood is saying. No one has proved her wrong yet on this theory, and that is all I ask people to do, instead of resorting to personal attacks.
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Wiyaka
 
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Reply Sat 12 Jun, 2004 08:58 pm
PostModernFreak wrote:
fairandbalanced wrote:
PostModernFreak wrote
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By heavier stuff, I mean her use of Darwin. Couldn't you apply his theories about survival of the fittest on human beings. I don't know what, and none knows for sure what causes homosexuality. But could it be considered a defect, and wouldn't it turn homosexuals into weaker links, as our natural goal as humans is to reproduce? Anyways, that was some food for thought.


Your words, if you please.

Are you aware of animals who, unable to reproduce, care for other's young? Now, obviously , you didn't read all of the links, nor my posting regarding my friend and his partner adopting two boys. The judge (my friend) and his partner are both male, just in case I didn't mention that. Being GLBT has nothing to do with parenting skills, nor whether Darwin is right or wrong.

The thread is about a woman having her children taken away because of her being lesbian. (There! We're back on thread.) That's wrong on the basis that being lesbian has nothing to do with her parenting skills. If there is a reason, such as neglect or abuse, I say fine. If not, she has the right to raise her own kids, but this has been discussed by Sam previously.
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fairandbalanced
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 11:20 am
PostModernFreak writes
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I am not calling homosexuals weaker links or defects, nor am I questioning that homosexuals have done good things for society. I am raising a question, based on natural science theories, such as Darwin's theory about survival of the fittest - is it not plausible to use his theories as arguments for why homosexuals should not be allowed to have children - because that's what LRRHood is saying. No one has proved her wrong yet on this theory, and that is all I ask people to do, instead of resorting to personal attacks.


Can you tell us how Darwin's theory applies to L.L.R.Hood's arguments? Please be specific. Thank you Smile
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Sam1951
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 12:55 pm
PostMod,

Try looking for information on pack carnivores and, interestingly enough, Chickadees. You will find that non breeders stay with the group and provide significant care for the young. Yes, by doing so they perpetuate their genes too.
Humans, by caring for adopted young perpetuate the species. Parenting abilities are individual and have nothing to do with race, ethnic background or sexual orientation. Ok?

Sam

PS: Being GLBT is not equal to sterile. Many GLBT couples choose to procreate with assistance from willing sperm donors or surrogate mothers. Some GLBT men have gone as far as having an embryo implanted in the intestinal wall. Then have given birth, caesarian, to normal healthy babies.
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cavfancier
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 12:57 pm
I certainly know plenty of horrid hetero parents.
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Craven de Kere
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 01:11 pm
<flips coin>

Ok, I don't think gays should be legally allowed to adopt children.

I don't really think that, but the arguments here are so pathetic that I'm taking up this position for now.

BTW fairandbalanced, I did read this thread and your arguments are, on average, quite shoddy (and this coming from someone who actually shares a similar position) and I would not be touting them if I were you.
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fairandbalanced
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 01:33 pm
PostModernFreak wrote,
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I read the whole thing, and her arguments about her knowing a few homosexuals, who does this and that, is of course a big generalization, and more likely an attempt at rubbing you the wrong way for pleasure, than actually being factual


Wow, I agree! Smile But I think her jab at me is quite misdirected though. She might want to heed Vivien's and BillW's advise. It's quite therapeutic. Laughing

PostModernFreak wrote,
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Couldn't you apply his theories about survival of the fittest on human beings.


How would you apply Darwin's theories? Can you be specific? I'd love to discuss this with you. Better yet, you might want to extend an invitation to your friend, L.L.R.Hood. Smile

PostModernFreak wrote
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But could it be considered a defect, and wouldn't it turn homosexuals into weaker links, as our natural goal as humans is to reproduce?


Interesting question.

I'm glad you thought of it. To invoke the Darwin theory of natural selection, genetics will have to come to play. Homosexuality has been around for over 4,000 years. There were homosexuals in ancient Egypt, ancient Rome, ancient Greece, ancient China, early formation of Japan, and ancient Sumeria. Today homosexuality still thrives in our society and is more visible than 100 years ago. If homosexuality is a weak link, why has it flourished in today's society?

Most homosexuals come from heterosexual parents. Why does these parents keep passing on the homosexual gene if it is weak?

Sure natural reproduction occurs when men and women have sex but this is also the result of pleasurable sex, youthful exuberance and sexual abandon, which are not necessarily the result of planned parenthood. Do you think so many people will have sex and bear children as a result if sex wasn't so euphorically pleasurable?

My theory is that homosexuality is a part of humanity's survival. I believe its a kind of check and balance for our species. It may also be an outlet for some of humanity's traits to have a greater contribution to society. For example a straight female may be as creative as a lesbian female but because she gets pregnant and gets married early, she did not have the luxury of pursuing her dreams and achieving her full potential. Whereas a lesbian, who had sex with other females in her youth did not get pregnant or married so early, had an easier time pursuing her dreams and achieving her full potential. Let me remind you that this is just a theory and that there are of course many other factors involved not just sexuality in achieving one's potential.

The world is now getting way too overcrowded. There will be a time when the earth's resources can no longer sustain all of us. If homosexuality is nature's way of countering or slowing the over population of our planet, wouldn't that contribute to the survival of our species? I'm not sure. This is merely a question but a good one to ponder nevertheless. Cool
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fairandbalanced
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 01:38 pm
Sam1951 wrote,
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You will find that non breeders stay with the group and provide significant care for the young. Yes, by doing so they perpetuate their genes too.
Humans, by caring for adopted young perpetuate the species. Parenting abilities are individual and have nothing to do with race, ethnic background or sexual orientation. Ok?


Very true. Cool
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fairandbalanced
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 01:45 pm
Craven de Kere wrote,
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BTW fairandbalanced, I did read this thread and your arguments are, on average, quite shoddy (and this coming from someone who actually shares a similar position)


Can you tell me how my arguments are shoddy?

I would also like to know what arguments you may offer that is better than mine? Please tell me in great detail. I would love to exchange useful information with you. Thanks? Cool
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Craven de Kere
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 01:52 pm
fairandbalanced wrote:

Can you tell me how my arguments are shoddy?


I sure can, and am typing it now. I'll focus on one or two spectacular brainfarts rather that go for a comprehensive course on how not to debate.

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I would also like to know what arguments you may offer that is better than mine? Please tell me in great detail.


Whoa! Slow down there, I'm not gonna be your tutor, that would be selfish of you.

You sure you aren't gay? ;-)
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Sam1951
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 01:58 pm
Fair One,


Quote:
The world is now getting way too overcrowded. There will be a time when the earth's resources can no longer sustain all of us. If homosexuality is nature's way of countering or slowing the over population of our planet, wouldn't that contribute to the survival of our species? I'm not sure. This is merely a question but a good one to ponder nevertheless.


I have had the above quoted thought run through my head quite a few times.
Too many people, too few resources equals a recipe for suffering and potential extinction. Even with unlimited food and water there is a limit to space. Over crowding sets the stage for violence. There have been experiments using rats which show that with unlimited food and water, but limited space the subjects start killing each other when the population reached a certain density. Not that I think rats are a perfect substitute for humans. I just don't think you could legally set up such an experiment using human subjects. The time frame would also be difficult to cope with. Hmm, I wonder if we may be getting close to a population density conducive to spontaneous outbreaks of violence. ( Embarrassed Sorry a bit off thread, but interesting. Ay?)


Sam
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Craven de Kere
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 02:06 pm
Just a quick start to address the outright falsehoods and some of the more spectacularly silly arguments.

Wiyaka wrote:
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="L.R.R.Hood"]Sam1951, I do not believe it is genetic. There is no scientific proof of that.

There had been Dutch scientific studies done on the human brains of "transgender or transexual" individuals showing that brains of people like myself have been much more closer to a woman's brain than that of a "normal" man. The size and shape of various parts of the "transgender" brain and that of a woman's are nearly identical.


There's a lot of junk science out there, I hope that was your point. I've read a study that sounds identical to that one, and it never ceases to amaze me what can get a grant these days.

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I hate to disagree, but if you do the research that same and I have done, you'll find that being as we are is not only scientifically proven, but a genetic factor. Choice is not a consideration.


This is false. I happen to think that the available evidence is such that it is likely to be genetic but saying that it is "scientifically proven" is wishful thinking posing as proof.

There's a lot of evidence pointing that way but we are not yet at a level of genetic science to put that dispute to rest.

fairandbalanced wrote:
Can you tell me where is your concrete scientific proof that heterosexuality is genetic? I would like to know. Homosexuality may not have concrete proof that it is genetic but there is also no proof that it is not genetic.


This is an silly argument that fairandbalanced is shameless enough to actually post more than once and even demand a response. Asking people to pardon its issuance would have been a better idea.

"Can you tell me where is your concrete scientific proof that heterosexuality is genetic?"

Heterosexuality itself when considered within the abiguity of sexuality almost makes this argument make sense.

But a cursory consideration of what constitutes genetics and the mechanics of reproduction (inherently heterosexual in nature even with assexual reproduction) makes this a laughable question.

Here's a really simple answer:

Heterosexuality is the vector through which genetic continuance exists at all. To doubt it's genetic nature is simply absurd. But I won't side-track this thread into an effort to get fairandbalanced to comprehend basic elements of procreation.

Later you make the brainfarts bold and actually beg and demand responses to them! Laughing

By all means, someone should address them:

fairandbalanced wrote:
Homosexuality may not have concrete proof that it is genetic but there is also no proof that it is not genetic.


The invisible dwarf on my shoulder may not have concrete proof as to its existence but, get this, there us also no proof that it does not exist.

I trust that my use of large type was sufficiently convincing to ignore the complete disregard for burden of proof.

The bold font should probably also suffice as a means through which to curcumvent the realization that I am making an insipid demand for proof of a negative.

fairandbalanced, that one is something that really should have been hidden under a bushel.

Sam1951 wrote:

I have yet to see one post on this thread that states clearly why GLBT people, either as individuals or as couples should not raise children.
The reason, there is none. That's right there is no reason why GLBTs should not raise children.


False. There are plenty of reasons. <stepping out from temporary role> it's just that they aren't good enough ones (by our estimation).

Sam1951 wrote:
Now I ask, most respectfully, please give a good reason why GLBT people should not raise children.


Before I continue just remember that I don't care, gays can raise a whole herd if they want, I don't care. But because of the shoddy arguments I'm playing devil's advocate.

I have to go to work so I'll start small:

Lesser deviations from societal norms preclude adoption. The same reasons that many of the other factors in precluding adoption can serve as a reason to form the basis of such a rejection.

Many of the arguments against such a proscription are arguments that have just as much weight in, say, arguing against pot being something that prevents adoption.

Biological parenthood is a horse of a different colour.

I have known quite a few homosexuals, and every single one of them is extremely self-centered, and basically selfish.

L.R.R.Hood wrote:

I have known quite a few homosexuals, and every single one of them is extremely self-centered, and basically selfish.


Positing this anecdotal evidence as an argument is risible. But you prefaced it with an "I'm about to use a bad argument" disclaimer in regards to its anecdotal nature so let's examine the other angles to this brainfart.

1) How were you able to determine that your observation is not merely a product of prejudice and a predisposition to interpreting them that way?

2) Do all self-centered people not deserve kids? All selfish people?

L.R.R.Hood wrote:
I was referring to all of the homosexuals that I have met... that's all I can speak for. They all had the qualities I mentioned, and as I stated... if I meet one who doesn't fall in that self-centered and irrational category, I'll change my view.


What view? Do you actually base any conclusions on your anecdotal evidence?

If so, I hope the conclusion is:

In my life I have found the specific gay individuals that I have met to be ______.

Because almost anything other than that and we need to talk "scientifically sound data sample".

ehBeth wrote:
LRR - if all of GBLT people you meet are the same, and are all as awful as you suggest (do you really number the GBLT people you are acquainted with, BTW ? ), you might want to generally reconsider the people you spend time with.


Take a bow Bethie! This is an important filter to use on the already dismissable anecdotal evidence:

LRR, how did you determine that your experience with gays is not a result of the ilk of people with which you associate?

Sam1951 wrote:
Seriously, 23 individuals out of the 700 million GLBTs in the world is something like 3.28%.


Shocked You must be an accountant. To err is human, to err to the tune of 8 figures takes an accountant.

Wy wrote:
How do you count the number of GLBT people you know? And once they're "counted", do they fulfill the expectations you hold for them?


Awesome point! Mebbe I should retract my earlier arrogant claim of bad arguments here, there are some damn good ones.

LRR, how do you know that you did not perhaps only identify the flamboyant gays and perhaps interpret the flamboyance as self-centeredness?

This one seems really probable, hell I can dig an interpretation of a Will and Grace's Jack type of gay being self-centered and maybe your "gaydar" only shows you those, making you miss the unassuming homos all around you.

Sam1951 wrote:
The leading cause of death among GLBTs is suicide followed by murder and then disease. We kill ourselves because we have been told by society that we are defective and bad people.


How have you reached that conclusion? Because that is usually a standoff between people thinking that gays intristically have psychological issues and gays inheriting those issues from societal treatment.

Either way, it's not a great thing to mention here as some people's objection to homosexual adoption centers on the data on psychological issues they have at rates higher than the general population.

fairandbalanced wrote:

Just where did you find these homosexual acquaintances or friends of yours? The local sex club perhaps? Laughing Laughing
Open your eyes for once. Ooooh. What a concept!


fairandbalanced, you asked me to point out your shoddy arguments. Here's one. It sounds like a throw-back to elementary school and contains the usual "open your eyes and agree with me" ploy.

But if it is any consolation to you, you do that "ooooh" thing very convincingly. It was almost sufficient argument for me to see things your way.

fairandbalanced wrote:
L.L.R.Hood must have missed this post. :wink:

L.L.R.Hood writes,
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Sam1951, I do not believe it is genetic. There is no scientific proof of that.[/size] doglover, how can a gay couple conseive? Unnaturally, right?


Can you tell me where is your concrete scientific proof that heterosexuality is genetic? I would like to know. Homosexuality may not have concrete proof that it is genetic but there is also no proof that it is not genetic. Cool


Arg. The only thing worse than a brainfart argument is when the interlocutor thinks he has stumbled upon a wicked awesome argument that just must be addressed under the threat of bigger and bolder fonts.

fairandbalanced, I happen to think that homosexuality is, in some forms (some nurture forms of homosexuality exist) is genetic, but this is still an idiotic argument for the reasons I will summarize.

1) It disregards burden of proof. Just like dwarfy. Reducing an argument to this level makes it futile.

2) It is demanding proof of a negative, which is idiotic for the reasons we all know. Now it is sometimes possible to proove a negative, but that one can't be should almost invariably have no bearing on accessment of the positive.

fairandbalanced wrote:
His silence speaks volumes. Laughing Laughing


Perhaps, but I assure you that it speaks less than repeating a brainfart in increasingly bold fonts while thinking you've made a positively crushing argument.

Oh boy, you are gonna make it bolder aren't you?

fairandbalanced wrote:
L.L.R.Hood must have missed this post. :wink:

L.L.R.Hood writes,
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Sam1951, I do not believe it is genetic. There is no scientific proof of that.[/size] doglover, how can a gay couple conseive? Unnaturally, right?


Can you tell me where is your concrete scientific proof that heterosexuality is genetic? I would like to know. Homosexuality may not have concrete proof that it is genetic but there is also no proof that it is not genetic. Cool


fairandbalanced, what you lack in way of ability to contruct sound arguments you more than make up for with obdurate tenacity and admirable skill with the use of bold fonts.

I'm convinced now.

Ahh, I'm gonna have to stop here, I have to go work and, in addition, if I see another post where fairandbalanced huffs and puffs and makes his fallacious argument even larger and in an even bolder font I will get very little work done.
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Craven de Kere
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 02:09 pm
Man, I just saw the next page and sure enough fairandbalanced was at it with larger more powerful fonts (if not arguments).

Well, like they say, if ya can't argue well argue loud.

The next step is to aquire a sock and some lug nuts.
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fairandbalanced
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 02:16 pm
Craven de Kere wrote
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I sure can, and am typing it now. I'll focus on one or two spectacular brainfarts rather that go for a comprehensive course on how not to debate.


Great! I can't wait. Cool I love your choice of words by the way.


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I would also like to know what arguments you may offer that is better than mine? Please tell me in great detail.


Whoa! Slow down there, I'm not gonna be your tutor, that would be selfish of you.


So are you gonna tell me what arguments you may offer that is better than mine? Yes or no?
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Craven de Kere
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 02:27 pm
I already did. I argued against LRR's silly use of her anecotal evidence without using the shoddy arguments you did.

I also pointed out excellent arguments by Beth and Wy that were spot on.

There were probably more but I got tired of laughing at your increasingly large text and repeated demands that your fallacious argument be addressed.

So in short if you want to see better ones look at the ones from Beth and Wy that I quoted, each was insightful and well formed.
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Sam1951
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 02:31 pm
Craven,

My Dad wanted me to go into accounting. Now you can see why I didn't. Very Happy :wink: Laughing

Sam
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Craven de Kere
 
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Reply Sun 13 Jun, 2004 02:32 pm
;-) I was just funnyin' with ya. I figured it had to be a typo or somethin'
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