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Sun 14 Dec, 2014 10:50 pm
So I've been dating this guy for about three months, he used to text me all day long and see each other everyday. Which I thought was clingy at first. But then I got used to it, and all of a sudden he stopped asking me to hangout everyday and he will go hours without texting me. I just don't know if I should worry about the sudden change or not
@Hannahmuny,
You're not worrying, you're doing Algebra. You're trying to figure out the variable change that gave you the different output. He was giving you 100 attentions each day for a long time until suddenly he was giving you 30 attentions each day. You lost 70 attentions, you have to find out what he charged you for.
Hours? Really, hours??
OMG!!! How can you stand it?
How old are you?
@PUNKEY,
My thought exactly, Punkey. I mean, how dare he go a couple of hours without contacting her? And after only 3 whole months! I think they have some major, major issues.
@Hannahmuny,
yes you should worry because now it means the "newness" has worn off for him and something else is getting his attention. I dont care what anyone else is saying, its not odd for you to question his behavior. You shouldn't jump to conclusions though - maybe he's dealing with family issues? maybe its work related? talk to him and find out why the change
@jay2the,
Agree. Find out what changed, but go in optimistically and start scratching things off till you feel ethically satisfied.
Love usually lasts three months.
@Olivier5,
Made me laugh.. but there is some dollop of wisdom in there.
@ossobuco,
That's when you make it last of course.... It's possible to get over it in 2 days, too. ;-)
@Olivier5,
I know. I even remember his name because it was such a radically fast change.
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