I have spent my life in terror of dentists.

Various house moves in my childhood resulted in a succession of dentists who dismissed the work of my previous dentist and insisted on re filling all my fillings. In order to re fill a tooth you have to drill away a bit more tooth and therefore I am now left with extremely fragile teeth. One by one the fillings have fallen out, crowns have disintigrated and whole chunks of tooth have fallen away. As if my paranoia about dentists wasn't enough, I now have the sort of mouth that most dentists would rub their hands together with glee to see with the prospect of the huge amounts of money required to restore me to any kind of respectability. My instinct is to just ignore the decline of my dental health (as I have done for the past 20 years) and hope that when my teeth fall out (as they surely must) it will not hurt too much. Is there any hope for me? Are there any sympathetic dentists out there who will not recoil in horror

when they see the disaster area that is my mouth? Is it just co incidence that the only teeth that are giving me trouble are the ones which the dentists have worked on? Is it just co incidence that since I stopped going to the dentist I have not suffered from any kind of tooth ache?