Has the line been crossed?

Are they using each other as a "cover"?

Does she acknowledge your relationship; are you both "out"?

The "husband and wife" thing is odd. If you have told her if bothers you, why do you think she continues with this behavior?

We're both out. I'm 22 and she's 31. We've been together almost two years.We're both girls. I have told her many times how I felt. I feel hopeless. Thank you so much for the reply. I really need it. I have no one to turn to . And honestly I think she craves the attention and likes that he buys her things.

Oh, that's unkind.

Is he out? Maybe this is something he's doing to protect a secret. I'm not saying it's justified (it's not), but that might be the reason.

He's definitely out and he has a boyfriend of 5 years. Ps. They also made out twice one night while we were all drunk. I don't know if I'm crazy becauserthey both tell me I am.

You're not crazy.

Cripes, now I'm pissed for you.

Thank you so much for responding. I never thought I would seek advice of Internet strangers. Now the question is do I stay :-(

H-m-m-m.

You're 22 and she's 31. That's quite a gap.

Plus, she's CHEATING on you!! (I don't care if this guy and her are confusing - it's cheating)

Move on and find love elsewhere.

Are you single? Lol thanks. I really needed advice.