@antidave,
Quote:lot of truths came out this week that she had been holding back. I am willing to try but I feel like she has gone out of her way to destroy or taint everything I found sacred.
She's letting it all out.
You're willing to try.
She may have held in anger for some reason, perhaps you spent hours upon hours with your "baby" that being the business, instead of your "baby" that being your wife.
See how things go, I'm not advocating what she did but the fact that she's told you and still talking about things, wants to seek counselling suggests that she still loves "you"....
If someone isn't around for a long time a relationship can turn to friendship, sounds as if you both still have love for each other and that's worth working on in my opinion.