My wife used to be very sexually active. But over time... well... not so much.
We're a young couple. Both 30. So it's not an age thing, She tells me that it's not me. She likes sex generally and isn't board with me (we keep it spicy
). But in terms of frequency she's got the sexual appetite pre-adolesent fish!
We've discussed it several times, the first being several YEARS ago. She has always seen the difference in our libidos and agrees that it's a problem, and that it needs to be addressed. (She offered for example that her appetites might rise if she were to read tastefully erotic liturature.)
But the problem is that is she sees the fact and agrees that it's a problem ...when I bring it up. Otherwise, she admits, she doesn't think about it. I'm seriously going nuts!
How do I get this woman to understand that a marriage might actually require some effort in one or two departments, or at the very least that it might require that she give a flying @#*% about somthing I've been complaining about for years?!?!
I'm not going to pretend I'm a perfect man, but I do try to be sensitve about her concerns and address them. I just want the same courtesy?
PLEASE. I need advice.
Good advice, Bill.
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