@Ignzero,
Ignzero wrote:
I saw a pretty girl, asked her out, we went to a party. Nothing happened. (I was slow)
are you sure she wanted something to happen?
after ^ she cancelled a date and then pushed you away when you tried to kiss her on your second actual date
maybe she'd like to become friends with you before deciding whether she wants to be in a relationship with you that involves kissing or anything else
if you're good with the idea of being her friend, and not planning to push her sexual boundaries, I'd say ask her to the party
you may become friends
you may remain as friends
or you may both decide that there's a possibility of a relationship
spend some time with her and get to know her - if you'd like to have her as a friend (and maybe more later)