Why would I have mother issues or women issues? That's ridiculous for a man to let such trivial matters take away their future, their potential and their ability to make things happen. If people don't want to work things out, then that's the reality, dear. My mother chose to be like you - lie to everyone by telling them what they want to hear, while doing absolutely nothing herself. Sits on her ass all day, takes my father for granted, gets mad when you trigger her true nature and then says "I'm hurting", because she's a coward that uses this make-believe pain to keep others from helping her out of her pit. This is not "my" problem. My mother is not "me". Saying "my" mother is not saying "her character is dependent on me". She is not a "parent"; lying, cheating, lazy ass **** do-nothing ball of useless lard is not a "parent". I do not care about "but she gave birth to you", it's the stupidest argument known to man. It doesn't stop knocked up girls from raising monsters because they did not control themselves or teach her children about "reality"; the one people ignore for "pleasure" and "comfort". I have all of this figured out and padded down - I helped many times; in fact, I showed hope, chance, love, but it never changed - trying to love someone that never changes from their bad habits, is a disease that leads to insanity.
I never cared what people thought. I don't get offended. I am not fazed by anyone. I just tell people how it is, if they react, then they just make it easy for me to bring them down from their illusion to their personal conclusion. Many, many people mistaken me for everything but what I am - alas, many, many people mistaken their fears in the same manner. I and fear, we are no more than misunderstood friends.