Anyone's opinion is welcomed! I pointed it towards the guys because I wanted to know how they act with their significant other as well. This man, other than 2 other relationships, has been pretty much all I've known when it comes to being with someone. & it bugs me how everyone seems to always pull out the "not always" quote because if you've been in an abusive relationship than you know that some days are better than other. It doesn't necessarily mean that the abuse isn't still there. It means that some days, he has his **** under control.