A Question For The Guys..

So you don't want to hear from women about this guy who abuses you ("but not always")?

You know the answer to this without having to ask anyone.

Anyone's opinion is welcomed! I pointed it towards the guys because I wanted to know how they act with their significant other as well. This man, other than 2 other relationships, has been pretty much all I've known when it comes to being with someone. & it bugs me how everyone seems to always pull out the "not always" quote because if you've been in an abusive relationship than you know that some days are better than other. It doesn't necessarily mean that the abuse isn't still there. It means that some days, he has his **** under control.

I'm taking that as a no? I don't really have a lot of female friends who are in actual relationships therefore I honestly have no idea how other guys act towards their girlfriend, wife, etc. Men are a complete mystery to me.

So I was right. You did know the answer without having to ask.

Eh, I guess, subconsciously, I did.

Emotion is not a male/female aspect - it's the water to our fire. Males are born with more fire; females are born with more water. Both can end up in the other side of the spectrum if they do not balance out their universal attributes.

I'm 40, doesn't make any sense to be a "hard ass" about my feelings. I share with her and she shares with me. It's called communication and adults should have that skill with their loved ones...

Once you know that all of us are exactly alike....