Thing is we still do love each other
How do you know this since you wrote
I have no much form of contact with him as his dad smashed his phone and he deactivated various social medias.
If you have no way of contacting him at all, then you have no way of knowing if he still loves you.
How long has it been since you were last in contact with him?
Seems to me, if he still loved you and was willing to go against his dad's wishes that he would have found a way to get in contact with you. I take it you must live in different places.
I truly love him and I am not willing to lose him over something like this.
You may not be willing to lose him, but he may well be willing to lose you in order to abide by his father's wishes. The point is, you do not know until you two talk. And since you cannot talk unless he finds a way to contact you, then you can either sit around being miserable waiting on a contact that might never come or you can get on with your life and look for someone who is not under the control of his family.