Mon 1 Sep, 2014 02:51 pm
So..
I've been dating my boyfriend now for 2 years. I'm 20 and hes 24. He seems to possible have an issue with masterbating. I caught him twice a few months ago and before them i really didn't think he did it that much. Now, every single time hes home alone i can tell that hes pleasured himself while i was gone. Even if i leave to go to the store for 10 minutes, I will find a wet sock or the "sex towel" in a different spot/position. He also was claiming to be "pooping" in the morning and i never believed him and one day i found out that he was cumming in the tub so i couldn't tell until one day i finally figured it out. I didnt want to say anything because the one time i did he became defensive and said i didnt trust him so i let it go. One day i used the restroom after he "pooped" and stepped in cum that landed on the floor. I confronted him and he appologized and said he wouldn't do it while i was here anymore. Then the other day i looked through his phone while he was in the shower (@night) and found he was looking at porn/pics at some point that day, which upset me because we were with each other all day and at no point would he have had the time to do that while i wasnt there. I asked about it and he said that he looks at naked women in the morning to "wake up" when i'm there sleeping. We talked about that as well and he apologized once again and said he wouldn't do that any more. I explained that i thought that was very disrespectful and it made me feel insecure. Appearance wise, i would say i'm an attractive woman, i'm 140lbs and fit, i feel compared to most girls my age i have a very likeable body/figure for most guys. I dont know what to think ladies. I mean i've reached the point where i'm ok with him doing it while i'm gone and hes alone all day, it just makes me feel insecure that hes looking at other women every chance he gets and masterbates. I believe that hes not going to do it anymore when i'm here, but still every time he goes into the bathroom i get the feeling thats what hes doing, and i dont even like to leave to go get fast food or grab something from the store because i think hes going to masterbate. Is this something i should get stressed out about? Is it normal for a guy to masterbate this much? I just want to see if any of you share similar stories or have any advice for me.
Poop - cum - ewwwwww! TMI!!!
Seriously, he's a young guy, they jerk off a lot. He sounds very inconsiderate of your feelings, however, and that's enough reason to dump him, if that is where you are going with this. Try telling him you finger yourself and think of Brad Pitt and see how he likes that.
He's a young man and they tend to do that a lot. It seems he might be doing it slightly more than average, but just barely. Has your sex life been affected? If everything is still normal in that department then I would not be concerned. Men are very visual when it comes to sexual arousal and most look at porn at some point or another. It is kind of 'ick' that you have to find the evidence lying around, but as long as you two work out whatever is comfortable for y'all then it shouldn't be a worry.
@Aldistar,
Aldistar wrote: Has your sex life been affected? If everything is still normal in that department then I would not be concerned.
if your (OP) sex life continues normally, there is really nothing to be concerned about - other than he sounds like a bit of a slob - which may be related or a separate thing
This has nothing to do with you. It's him. He's still thinking with his penis and succumbs to his every erotic thought by masturbating. Hopefully, this will decrease a little just by maturity.
His personal hygiene is another story. He's disrespectful of the home, but it is his home, right? Does he act like that at your place?
Tell him you won't clean up after he pleasures himself - and hand him the paper towels when he goes to the bathroom
@contrex,
I just feel that the fault is with you dear. Just try to give him a very good masterbate shots from you hand two three times daily and see. It might definitely bring you good results. Seriously this was successful for many previously.
@Prnadvisor,
This was six months ago, pma.
By now he has probably flooded the bathroom, ruined every sock/towel in the house and is crouched in the corner, all skin and bone apart from a very muscular right arm.
@Lordyaswas,
Just mu luck, logged in and found this gem. I feel the need to get a hazmat suit, uuuuurrrrrpppp.
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