@1517wen,
Quote:1) has his wife found out abt us? which I doubt so because I haven had any confrontation yet.
2) does he feel guilty? But if he does, y still say he hopes to drive me home more often after our lovely kiss?
3) Shld I drop him a text msg today instead of WA msg because he did tell me before sometime he will miss WA msg?
4) Or shld I wait til tmr when I see him in office to confirm if there's anything wrong?
5) is he uncontactable because of me?
1. Most likely, he may be denying you by now. Common excuses a cheater says: she means NOTHING to me, YOU (wife) is the most important person to me, she is a slut that offered herself to me, MY FAMILIY is my priority, i was CONFUSED.
2. It is propable that he feels guilty too. It is actually natural. He may destroy years of marriage in exchange for a small adventure.
3. No, donĀ“t even dare. If he is avoiding you for some reason you can make things worst. And if you have evaded confrontation by now, you may trigger a bigger problem that can include your family.
4. You should avoid him at work and act like if nothing happened.
5. Yes it is because of you.
You should be more worried on trying to fix your marriage. There are two ways. Divorce or fix.
If you choose divorce you can go and kiss any SINGLE man you want.