@contrex,
Quote:If so, she should not demean herself by prying into his privacy
Privacy of this nature (in a marriage) is a recent concept. So is the belief that looking at the text messages of your spouse/partner is demeaning. That by itself should say something.
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How by the way, does one look for evidence of an affair, when almost invariably - the person having an affair tries to hide it? Is it really possible to do so without breaching 'privacy'?
I would stand by what I said earlier (how to ask the question), but outside of that , in cases like this, I don't think it's reasonable to hold privacy 'principles' up as a protector of infidelity.
That said - there is often a price to pay if you are wrong.