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Fri 13 Jun, 2014 07:42 pm
I really liked this guy since the beginning of freshmen year. I'm sixteen btw. This guy would tease me all year...he even created this nickname for me. He always smiled at me and his friends teased him about liking me. Well recently I decided to add him on snap chat. He started messaging me and talking to me more just a week ago. We talked for hours every day and he kept asking me questions to get to know me (like what sports I play). Then yesterday...we started playing this question game. He started asking me questions about how far I've gone with a guy and if I've ever sent nudes. It was supposed to be fun...but then he asked me I could send him a picture of myself with some cleavage showing. I didn't respond at first...and then he instantly started apologizing. Yesterday he apologized all day and I didn't respond. Then last night he apologized again and said how he felt really bad about what happened, I told him that it was okay but I'm not that kind of girl and I don't think that's okay. He said he understood and still felt bad about what he did. Now today, he hasn't messaged me at all. This hurts so bad....how do I get over him? Or do you think I should give him a second chance? Thanks!
Halfway through your post I was thinking "what is wrong with just being friends, why does she need to move on?"
Then red flags popped up all over your post. It is up to you, either move on or keep being friendly, but guard your privacy.
My instincts are telling me he and his friends have a competition going to see who can collect the most sexy pix of girls and are sharing them with each other. Someone who cares about you doesn't ask for pictures like that especially when you're just barely getting to know each other.
Be careful and be on guard. If you decide to pursue the friendship, make him earn your trust
@jennylovesyou16,
Besides, I get the impression from your post that you two have met face to face and see each other in school. If this is the case, why does he need a picture of you?
If you have not met face to face yet, the picture request is troublesome.
@jennylovesyou16,
He is either humiliated and too embarrassed to even talk to you
OR
He has moved on and will work another girl over until she sends him a cleavage picture.
Time will tell
You should know him and his buddies well enough to figure this out.