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Can I get input about this?

 
 
Ely1987
 
Reply Tue 20 May, 2014 01:41 pm
I would like to know why my husband wants me to call him daddy all the time. Lately we have started conversations about bondage sex and when we were texting he made me call him master a few times but now he doesn't like master? He only likes daddy and I'm so confused???
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roger
 
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Reply Tue 20 May, 2014 01:45 pm
@Ely1987,
I can only guess that he wants you to be the obedient and dependent little girl in the relationship.
CoastalRat
 
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Reply Wed 21 May, 2014 07:52 am
@Ely1987,
Maybe he is senile and thinks you are his daughter. Or maybe it just gets him off imagining that it is his daughter he is married to and screwing. Sick, if you ask me. But to each his own.
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Lordyaswas
 
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Reply Wed 21 May, 2014 08:34 am
@Ely1987,
He hasn't mentioned spatulas or other kitchen utensil related activities, has he?

Is that you, Daphne?
Lash
 
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Reply Wed 21 May, 2014 05:16 pm
@Lordyaswas,
muahaha. small world.
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Ely1987
 
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Reply Thu 22 May, 2014 10:44 am
@Lordyaswas,
No he hasn't. And, honey my name is Ely short for Elizabeth. Not that it should concern you what my name is. I made this post for input which was seen clearly, not too be questioned by someone I don't even know.
luismtzzz
 
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Reply Thu 22 May, 2014 04:38 pm
@Ely1987,
These issue i had seen is kind of complicated for some women. Human beens are sexual creatures we depend on it for our survival not just as a mean for reproduction but as a mean of bonding. We are even the only animal that actually has sex facing each other, it is belived between evolutionary antropologis that has something to do with personal bonding and with the capacity of the females to choose a partner.
Both sexes are really different, we men have sexual drive almost always but you women donĀ“t. These drives can lead to different types and degrees of sexual desires. The diversity is huge. There are men with high desire and those with low, as well as women. Sometimes the particular desires drives to a particular sexual fetish.
The master and daddy issue has nothing to do with paternalism but rather with his sexual desire and fantasy, is the work as a couple to determine if he unleashes his full fantasy if you consent with him. The same with bondage sex, assuming the rol of control and dominance during sex can be really exciting for a person, and completelly horrible for others.
The opposite exist as there are person who prefer submission.
Talk to him, learn what he wants and desires and what is his fantasy. Tell him your fantasies. Theres absolutelly nothing wrong with it. Use it to form a bigger couple bond, not just as husband and wife but as lovers.
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chai2
 
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Reply Thu 22 May, 2014 04:40 pm
@Ely1987,
Ely1987 wrote:

No he hasn't. And, honey my name is Ely short for Elizabeth. Not that it should concern you what my name is. I made this post for input which was seen clearly, not too be questioned by someone I don't even know.


But you're fine with looking for input from someone you don't even know.
FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Thu 22 May, 2014 04:45 pm
@Ely1987,
Quote:
I would like to know


Ask him.

Though it seems clear to me. You're talking about bondage sex, he's looking it up, maybe even viewing Porn, with bondage, listening to what the male is called, Master seemed good, "the boss" "Who's your Daddy" relates to thy penis.

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Lordyaswas
 
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Reply Fri 23 May, 2014 12:48 am
@Ely1987,
Ely1987 wrote:

No he hasn't. And, honey my name is Ely short for Elizabeth. Not that it should concern you what my name is. I made this post for input which was seen clearly, not too be questioned by someone I don't even know.


OK, some input.

Maybe he's tried humour with you in the past, but hit a brick wall?
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victor12
 
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Reply Fri 23 May, 2014 04:40 am
@roger,
Yes .. You are right.. i think he wants to treat you like a little cute girl.
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Ely1987
 
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Reply Fri 23 May, 2014 06:08 am
@chai2,
Yes I am. In hopes that someone would know more about this situation than I do to help me understand it. So why exactly does it matter who gives me input? It doesn't. Why does it matter who I am? It doesn't. I just wanted good input and I think I received that no thanks to your irrelevant comment.
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ft250
 
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Reply Wed 19 Dec, 2018 03:08 pm
@Ely1987,
Cant comment on why he does it, but it turns me on greatly to be called daddy in bed. Master doesn't do it for me though.
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