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What to do when a friend ignores you?

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Marija
 
Reply Mon 5 May, 2014 02:46 pm
I'm not sure what happened last time I talked with my friend, but he's been ignoring me for some reason.
I feel like I said or did something that I shouldn't, but I'm still not sure where I made a terrible mistake. He leaves all my messages unanswered and I even tried to say sorry if I did something wrong last time we talked, but there's no answer from him. I don't want to seem so clingy so...
What do you think? What should I do now?

I apologize if I made a mistake somewhere, english is not my first language. Smile
Thanks for the answers ^^
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Setanta
 
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Reply Mon 5 May, 2014 03:10 pm
Your English is fine. Perhaps you need to re-evalutate this person as a "friend."
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Germlat
 
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Reply Mon 5 May, 2014 03:18 pm
@Marija,
Something could've gotten lost in translation. If you genuinely feel you have not intended harm or hurt...give your friend space. You've said all you could. The next move is not on your court. Leave it alone.
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Ragman
 
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Reply Mon 5 May, 2014 03:39 pm
@Marija,
Why assume they are ignoring you? Their computer might be broken, borrowed, in for repair. Also, they might be busy attending to something important (a death in family, illness, work, etc.). Never assume the worst scenario. There could be a simple but neutral possibility.

Also, without anyone here knowing what you might have last written in text or email, there's no way of telling if there could've been something about which they might feel insulted.
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Marc Cobain
 
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Reply Wed 7 May, 2014 05:12 pm
@Marija,
This person is not you're friend, if you know them personally & they're ignoring you, they're not your friend.
If you only know them from the internet, then... They're not your friend. which is sad I have to say that.
Very simple, a true friend is always there for you & knows you PERSONALLY!
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Marc Cobain
 
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Reply Wed 7 May, 2014 05:15 pm
@Marija,
Also, it sounds like you want more than a "friendship", if he doesnt and picked up on that, then he is most likely ignoring you because he doesn't know what to say, ya know?
Don't be too clingy, it scares dudes away, trust me!
Germlat
 
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Reply Wed 7 May, 2014 06:39 pm
@Marc Cobain,
Not only dudes..,. Nothing frightened me more as a single chick than clingy people ..Not a good trait. Reeks of weird.
Marc Cobain
 
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Reply Thu 8 May, 2014 09:43 am
@Germlat,
Very True
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