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Tue 29 Apr, 2014 09:10 pm
So I meet this guy three months ago he is 27 and I am 21. When we meet we started hanging out a lot, like 2 or 3 times per week. Then we had our small fights, because both of us have a really strong personality. But recently everything was perfect, but when I asked him what he wanted from me he said “I havent thought about it, I was just going with the flow” after that I stop talking to him. Is this right? I mean I dont think I can talk to him and make him change what he feels about him so I decided to step away and try dating other people. I am taking this to the extreme? Help!
@andrea123,
He didn't say anything negative but he didn't indicate what you might want from the relationship. If it's right for you, it's the right thing to do. Is it that you're looking for a commitment? Or do you feel you liked him more than he liked you and perhaps felt rejected?
At age 21 it's often a good idea to keep your options open...and when a relationship isn't going how you want, avoid being exclusive unless all your instincts say 'that's the one'.