I asked him what he wanted from me after dating for 3 months

I Have been going out with this guy for 3 months. I really liked him and for some reason before I started hanging out with him I wanted to loose my virginity with my husband. However, I started enjoying a little bit more my life and decided to loose my virginity with him. I think it was because he understood my pain and also he help me out. When I told him to stop he would stop and he was very nice about it. He is 27 I am 21 and I just wanted to experience how it would feel with someone that I was not that emotionally attached. Anyways, he keep hanging out but sometimes I felt use. He would tell me "you can come to my house spend the night and the next day we can go eat do this and do that" but at the end he would just take me back to my house in the morning. I told him I felt used but he said that he was not using me "please don't think that, if I was using you I wouldn't go to so much trouble" and then I thought... so much trouble huh??? Then in the same conversation I told him " I am very confused I don't know what you want I don't know what I want, and I think is better for us to stop talking" and he said he didn't want to stop talking to me. so then I asked him "what do you want from me? what do you want?" and he answered : " I haven't thought about it, I am just going with the flow" and then I said, ok I will talk to you later and he asked me "are you going to keep talking to me " and I told him "yes". He said "we just have to communicate better and everything will be better " and I said "you are right" and after that I have not answer his text messages. I don't want to talk to him again. He does not value me and that how I feel. I liked him a lot but I just know that I deserve better than him. I am an smart, pretty, young woman. I really like him, but does he deserve an other change? My question is should I try talking to him again? or should I just keep ignoring him? I mean, I know I am not perfect but you either like me or not and he never said yes and I don't have time to waste. So what you think? am I being to drastic?