Sorry. Some editing going on while you posted.
For most people, the odds of you winning a woman back are directly proportional to :
- The depths of her good feelings & memories of you
- Any emotional issues she might have (here I'm talking a anti-growth trait that many people possess. Eg. for women, Daddy issues)
Positive: Humour, sureness of self, energy, drive, number of friends, ability to have a good time, passion etc
Negative: neediness (this is a big one that many men fall for), poor grooming, and the anything the opposite of the above positives.
They are only generics. Every person then has their own likes and dislikes. And most value one or two traits much more than the rest.