Adds, well, and my actions.
In many ways, my grocery store is my community.
My own view is admiration at how much you all can get around, how much you can command by all your access. I could get city help if I sign up seven days in advance. Not eight, and not six, seven, at 8 am, but not past 8
I'm an old snot myself, so I get it, but shopping ethics? This is a big question, re how people deal.
While I still go to my grocery store, the manager listens, we talk. I don't expect him to make decisions re me (I'm was a foodie before that was a word) and interested in local stuff, trying to get him to not stop all the varied chiles..