@LiveLoughLaugh24,
LiveLoughLaugh24 wrote:
1. His sister is friends with the friends that I am (so I'm scared & nervous that he will be weirded out and tell his sister which will then tell friends although I've never personally met him)
Well, then don't let your first interaction be a sext. You're not 12 years old. You should be old enough to know that type of gossip actually rarely happens. That takes too much effort about things they don't care that much about.
Quote:2. I'm not really sure what to say other than "Hey" or "Your so and so's sister right?"
I expect this person is relatively active on Facebook. If he posts about a movie he went to or a TV show he likes or a news story that interested him, comment on it with a related opinion on the topic.
Quote:3. What if he is not who i thought?
So? Either keep interacting with him or move on. What's the big deal about if he's the person you thought it might be. You yourself already established you never met him in real life.
Quote:4. Hypothetically thinking if we do chat and some day down the line we do end up meeting what if I'm not really into him???
I'll bite my tongue here. Good grief. What if an asteroid came down an crushed a cat ... yadda yadda yadda. Your next question in this line of thinking is ..., "what if we marry for 45 years then he cheats on me, murders our four children, then runs away to become the self declared governor of the New Martian States of America?" You're overthinking it.
Quote:5. I feel like I'm not letting fate take it's course..i feel like i would be forcing it in a way...
There's no such thing as fate. If there was such thing as fate then the second half of your sentence would be non-applicable in the first place.
Code:6. I've never actually met the guy in person!
404 Error. Concern not found. In this day and age, how is that applicable to anything? Establish an online relationship (friendship or above). Go on from there.
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