You speak as one totally satisfied with your lot in life and in the world scene.
I have nothing to do with any 'lot in life' or any 'world scene', you still think you can be involved within these two concepts (things and hence your 'dilemma'.
Tell that to the relatives of the passengers of Malaysia Airlines MH17, for starters.
I am assuming theses are people who are 'suffering' as you'd put it.
As you already know, there isn't anyone who is better off than anyone else. Ultimately, everyone is happy to be alive (before having to speak of course). But of course people like you have become used to speaking so it becomes your only way of relating, or rather, you feel the 'need' to relate and speaking comes therefore.
The present (you) has no problems or issues (you know this), but somehow 'we' convince each other otherwise for the sake of experience.