@Frank Apisa,
The word "ultimate" threatens YOU, in that you are embarrassed that you've used it so often yet have no clue what it means... You cannot define it, which is why you are now proposing to drop it.
I hereby accept your dropping of the word "ultimate" which you cannot define. Because I'm such a nice guy, you know...
I'll spare you also legitimate questions about what it means to be "involved in existence"... you probably don't have a clue what you mean by that anyway.
So now for my answers:
Is there a GOD involved in existence? - if there are any gods, they don't seem to be involved in our world.
Are no gods involved in existence? - as above
Did "existence" come into being from nothingness...or has "existence" always been? - IDK
Is there an afterlife? - no
Was there a forelife? - no
Do you exist independent of me? - yes, though not sure YOU exist. (Just kidding - I am certain you exist)
Are we all one...is non-duality the REALITY? - nox duality is our reality.