I want to know if my middle aged boyfriend who took a long time to ejaculate during sex but now that our relationship has become very deep and we reached a very trusting and beautiful level now he has orgasms within a short period of time, compared to when we were having a few issues. He never took any Viagra. I recently sought help for my drinking going to meetings etc. and part of me thinks that he loves me more now because he is so proud of me. Does this mean that he feels connected to me very deeply? I don't know much about how a mans mind can affect his orgasms.
Lovinglife said: now he has orgasms within a short period of time
He's probably imagining you're Hilary Clinton, Sarah Palin or the woman down the chip shop
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Joe Nation
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Tue 14 Jan, 2014 03:00 pm
@Lordyaswas,
Foreplay, of course, is a given, what has to be learned, after that, is control.
Joe(practice makes perfection)Nation
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eed5d061d397b1
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Wed 15 Jan, 2014 05:07 pm
@lovinglife,
Maybe you just sobered up
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hollallen
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Wed 26 Feb, 2014 05:20 pm
@lovinglife,
I don't know the relationship itself but being a man you have to separate desire from connected as a partner. It sounds to me like the fact the he orgasms so quickly now is that he really desires you. This again does not reflect connectivity. I am not saying your feelings are incorrect, they probably are, but remember that, speaking as a man, desire and connected as your mate or intimate lover are two different things.