@nikudada,
Many people have partners who are not on FB and whose pix are not there either.
I don't think my partner has any pix of me on his FB page. There's no need. I have a couple of him but they are in the context of photos of someone/something else.
Why should she respond to your comment about being gutted? I would have stepped over it as well.
She is the only one who knows if she wants you to stop speaking to her. If you want to know, you have to ask her.