@ramirez271889,
Quote: he is just terrible to her by the way
Standard line for anyone cheating on their spouse/significant other. Don't believe me? Read just about any thread where someone is cheating on someone else.
Quote:She has tried leaving him a few times but he either wont let her or she just dosent have the will power to go through with it.
Are they living together? If not, what exactly can he do to "stop her" from leaving him? (Answer: Nothing)
Quote:She just dosent wanna hurt him
In other words, she doesn't want to leave him. If he is really terrible to her, then why does she care if she hurts him?
Quote: hes even threatened to hurt her or me
You know this because she told you, right? And of course you believe her because someone who cheats on her boyfriend would never lie. Cheat maybe, but never lie.
Quote:and it hurts so much when i think i might lose her
You cannot lose what you do not have. And right now, you do not have her. You have some of her time. Her boyfriend has the majority of her time. So stop being so dramatic.
Quote:I feel like the only way to stop the pain is to forget about her
Bingo! Tell her to break up with the boyfriend or you need to walk away.
Quote:Im lost can someone please help?
I just did. And you're welcome.