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Reply Tue 19 Nov, 2013 07:21 pm
So i fell in love with this amazing girl. Shes everything i could ever want in a girl. After i got the courage to tell her how much i cared about her she confesses that she really liked me to. The problem is she has a boyfriend, he is just terrible to her by the way. She has tried leaving him a few times but he either wont let her or she just dosent have the will power to go through with it. She just dosent wanna hurt him. My problem is that we want to be together but we can't; hes even threatened to hurt her or me. I just feel so lost all the time, i love her so much and it hurts so much to watch her walk around with another guy.
Her and i talk all the time. We try to be together when we can, and im always so happy around her. Every moment feels so right when where together and i know she feels the same way(we have kissed and stuff by the way). I just dont know what to do, and it hurts so much when i think i might lose her. I feel like the only way to stop the pain is to forget about her, but everytime i think about losing her i know it would hurt so much more. Im lost can someone please help?
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jespah
 
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Reply Wed 20 Nov, 2013 07:22 am
@ramirez271889,
This so-called amazing girl is cheating on her boyfriend.

Never mind how he treats her. She has you and presumably she has the law on her side. So why does she stay? You might want to ask her the next time. You know, in between the kissing and stuff.
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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Wed 20 Nov, 2013 09:00 am
@ramirez271889,
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he is just terrible to her by the way
Standard line for anyone cheating on their spouse/significant other. Don't believe me? Read just about any thread where someone is cheating on someone else.

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She has tried leaving him a few times but he either wont let her or she just dosent have the will power to go through with it.
Are they living together? If not, what exactly can he do to "stop her" from leaving him? (Answer: Nothing)

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She just dosent wanna hurt him
In other words, she doesn't want to leave him. If he is really terrible to her, then why does she care if she hurts him?

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hes even threatened to hurt her or me
You know this because she told you, right? And of course you believe her because someone who cheats on her boyfriend would never lie. Cheat maybe, but never lie.

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and it hurts so much when i think i might lose her
You cannot lose what you do not have. And right now, you do not have her. You have some of her time. Her boyfriend has the majority of her time. So stop being so dramatic.

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I feel like the only way to stop the pain is to forget about her
Bingo! Tell her to break up with the boyfriend or you need to walk away.

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Im lost can someone please help?
I just did. And you're welcome.
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woiyo
 
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Reply Wed 20 Nov, 2013 10:15 am
@ramirez271889,
Sounds like a great country song !
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Wed 20 Nov, 2013 12:06 pm
@ramirez271889,
May I ask how old all parties are?
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