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What's the deal, Lucille?

 
 
Reply Thu 24 Oct, 2013 01:46 pm
So been in a relationship 15 months to someone I met on road. I travel for work but in May and June I was gone back home then had to work another project away from her. When we first met she was "hanging" with one guy, just got out of an engagement but he was still around and other men were interested. She supposedly stop talking to the ex, told the "friend" she was no longer interested and I had to confront the others to stop contacting. Since May she has put a security log-in on her phone, has her volume always turned down, will not answer calls in front of me, went out with a "friend" three times in a week but never when I am around, will not (and I yet too) introduce me to her parents but the ex lives next door and she visits often, asked one of the guys I confronted to come back to her work (bartender) to visit, lied about another guy and he having her phone number and now becoming friends with her ex on Facebook (excuse being her dad is in the hospital and he wanted updates since they are neighbors). WHAT SHOULD I DO? Thank you!
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myrockissolid
 
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Reply Thu 24 Oct, 2013 01:48 pm
@myrockissolid,
Oh and I sold my home, planned on moving to her area after my contract was up in January. In July and August I spent 75% of my time there. I'm in Chicago and she has only visited once.
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contrex
 
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Reply Thu 24 Oct, 2013 01:57 pm
@myrockissolid,
myrockissolid wrote:
WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Dump the broad. Even if she was as pure as Caesar's wife, you don't trust her.

myrockissolid wrote:
I had to confront the others to stop contacting

You "had" to? Buddy, you saw the warning signs but you kept right on.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Thu 24 Oct, 2013 02:01 pm
Every thread benefits from a sound track, and this one could use the help . . .

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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Thu 24 Oct, 2013 03:35 pm
@myrockissolid,
She hasn't done anything I can tell, other than to be very friendly with men, including her ex-husband. She's a bartender and perhaps having a lot of male friends is natural for her.

Still, she does not act like she is in a committed relationship, so I wonder why you would move in with her.

You seem to be keeping a laundry list of behaviors you think are troublesome. They signal bad times to come for you. Clearly, you don't trust her and her behaviors will drive you crazy.

Slow down with her and see if she is willing to make you her exclusive, but don't count on it. You two sound like you are in different worlds.

May I ask your ages?
Mame
 
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Reply Thu 24 Oct, 2013 06:27 pm
@PUNKEY,
PUNKEY wrote:

She hasn't done anything I can tell, other than to be very friendly with men, including her ex-husband. She's a bartender and perhaps having a lot of male friends is natural for her.



"... Since May she has put a security log-in on her phone, has her volume always turned down, will not answer calls in front of me, went out with a "friend" three times in a week but never when I am around, will not (and I yet too) introduce me to her parents but the ex lives next door and she visits often, asked one of the guys I confronted to come back to her work (bartender) to visit, lied about another guy and he having her phone number and now becoming friends with her ex on Facebook (excuse being her dad is in the hospital and he wanted updates since they are neighbors). "

Sounds obvious to me. I'd be outta there in a NYC minute.

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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Fri 25 Oct, 2013 05:54 am
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Sounds obvious to me. I'd be outta there in a NYC minute.

Or even a CSC* minute.

(* Charleston South Carolina )
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