Did I ruin everything with this guy by this text?

I met a guy a few months ago in California and he lives in NYC, I live in San francisco. I am moving back to NYC in a few months and he is aware of this. For the last two months we have communicated pretty much everyday via text. We have talked on the phone twice. I spent a weekend with this guy and we had sex back in August. I felt very attracted to him and partially that is because I have only had sex with 3 men total in my life, him being one of them. (im 28). Lately he has been a little distant and we haven't been texting as much. This weekend I got a little intoxicated and sent him a text. The text basically said, "I feel like your over talking to me, and that's ok, it was bound to happen. I just hope you know I continue to pursue you because I like who you are and I think your a great person. it kind of bums me out because lately I feel like I am bothering you and the one initiating conversation when before it was equal" (keep in mind he is aware that i have only had sex with 3 people and he is one of them). He didn't reply by morning and I sent another text that said. "Please ignore my text last nite, I was drunk".

He didn't reply until tonight and he said, "No problem, its all good, I hope your feeling better". I have not yet responded and don't plan on it for a while.
So now....
I feel so stupid and I think I ruined everything. What should I do from here on out? Did I ruin everything? I was just being honest. I do like him. I want to make things better if at all possible. please someone help me out with some advice.