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Thu 3 Oct, 2013 08:38 am
Hi
I'm 23 years old, I've been in a relationship since 4 years now and my boyfriend is my best friend we were best friends and then started dating.
Before this I had a past of 3 years.The situation was such that I was dating someone long back and my present boyfriend was my best friend then and now he is the one I'm dating as i fell in love with him and visa versa,
but since we are in a relationship every now and then in span of 2 months he gets insecure and upset because of my past.
Its his first relationship and he never had a past.I am his first girlfriend.
Every few months we fight, break up and get back because I had a past and he cannot take it,its been 4 years now and we are really serious about each other,recently we again fought and I am so saturated now of this topic coming up again that I broke up to get out of this verbal torture.We have not spoken for a while now and its all going really bad,I have done,explained everything to him all these years to make him feel secure and fine but he always says that he can never get fine with this topic and this will never get out of his head.
because of my past my present is in a mess.
I have no idea what should be done,who is right or wrong!
PLEASE HELP.
@Crazyfool90,
Let it rest for now. Be patient and let yourself heal. One way or another, this will sort out. You can't teach him or make him any more secure. If he's not secure, then it'll never work.
@Crazyfool90,
What is is about your "relationship" with this other fella that your current love can't get over?
After 4 years, if he is not secure about you and him, he never will be.
He will make your life miserable.
You must find out WHY he cannot let this past go.
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